Winning back your ex is something that I always thought belonged in the movies. Then I lost the girl who I thought was the love of my life. I was devastated. Fortunately, after months of being depressed, I found a tool to help get her back. I can proudly tell you that we got back together over a year ago and are now engaged to be married this summer. Getting back my ex seemed impossible at the time. Now it seems like the easiest thing in the world!

For me it was all about getting my ex girlfriend back. For you it might be a husband, a wife or a partner. The point is that The Magic of Making Up is the book that will help you turn your break-up into a make-up. It took some time for me to step back and realize what it was that I wanted. Did I want her back after she had broken my heart? Was this a break or a break-up? Was it something that was fixable, and why did it happen? You can’t go into winning back your ex without understanding these things. The Magic of Making Up would have been useless for getting back my ex without some serious thinking and coming to a few realizations about why things went the way they did.

The point that really made it clear to me that the situation WAS NOT BEYOND REPAIR was when I thought about the relationships that have ‘ended’ because of cheating. So many times there are people who give others a second chance because they love the other person deep down. I knew there was still feelings for me withing my ex. The question was how could I get to them? How could I make her see that there was still something between us and she had made a mistake? The answer laid within The Magic of Making Up and within the two of us.

The biggest first step to getting back my ex was having a plan before I called her. Going in with, ‘I just wanted to talk and see how you’re doing,’ sounds fine until you get into the the conversation and realize that you basically just want to yell at her that you love her and she needs to take you back. Truuuust me that is the worst thing in the world that you could do. Going in with a plan, knowing what you want to say and executing that plan will set the table for the entire conversation.

The heart of The Magic of Making Up is the information it provides on what men and women are all about. The author breaks things down like a regular person, but the ‘science’ to it is that he is a regular guy who has people skills. I always though I was an individual with above average people skills, but this was a real;y humbling read. He provides countless examples from all different ages and sexes where the end result was somebody saying, ‘Thanks for helping me in getting back my ex!’

This isn’t about selling you a bill of goods. It is about asking yourself if you want to sit on a couch and discuss feelings and listen to some clinical jargon or do you want to share the experiences of other regular people and learn how they got back the on they love? They have been where you are…not sitting in an office waiting for your check to clear. Give The Magic of Making Up a chance and I assure you that you won’t regret it!